"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Becoming Officially exclusive

BongDuy

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Im in highschool. Long story short, I've been walking this girl to class and getting kisses ( yes, real kisses. not that cheek crap) from her for a week straight so far. This has caught the attention of everyone, friends and strangers. This means they will approach me and say " Whats the deal with you and XXX?" or " Are you and XXX going out?"

I simply reply with a " we're not official yet." or I smile and walk away. I'm thinking it's time to make it official, because everyone seems to assume we're a couple, so if i get a little too flirty with other girls, they will tell XXX that im messing around with other chicks, which screws me over with XXX and gives me a bad rep in school, which isn't good.

How should I make it Official? I don't want to ask
" Do you want to be my girlfriend?"
" Do you want to date me?"
"Will you go out with me?"

Im trying to condition myself not to ask anymore when it comes to talking to girls. What are some other ways to make it official?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

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You've got her in the palm of your hand. Its time to take her out.

Don't ask her for a date, TELL HER she's coming with you on one. Say something like "I wanna go to xxx and you're gonna come with me!"

It needs to be done with confidence, or it won't work.
 
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