"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BongDuy

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Im in highschool. Long story short, I've been walking this girl to class and getting kisses ( yes, real kisses. not that cheek crap) from her for a week straight so far. This has caught the attention of everyone, friends and strangers. This means they will approach me and say " Whats the deal with you and XXX?" or " Are you and XXX going out?"

I simply reply with a " we're not official yet." or I smile and walk away. I'm thinking it's time to make it official, because everyone seems to assume we're a couple, so if i get a little too flirty with other girls, they will tell XXX that im messing around with other chicks, which screws me over with XXX and gives me a bad rep in school, which isn't good.

How should I make it Official? I don't want to ask
" Do you want to be my girlfriend?"
" Do you want to date me?"
"Will you go out with me?"

Im trying to condition myself not to ask anymore when it comes to talking to girls. What are some other ways to make it official?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You've got her in the palm of your hand. Its time to take her out.

Don't ask her for a date, TELL HER she's coming with you on one. Say something like "I wanna go to xxx and you're gonna come with me!"

It needs to be done with confidence, or it won't work.
 
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