"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Becoming more self aware
- Thread starter kabatura
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Let me get you started
http://delicious.com/solracious/bundle:life
This is my personal bevy of bookmarks for my personal growth
It takes time and effort to question yourself and see what you really stand for
it's worth it
trust me
ready123
Master Don Juan
and in the company of others, ask for their opinion. if you're macking, you can do this with girls to pick their brain and it's fun. kill two birds with 1 stone lol
and if you wanna take it a step further, after you get a clearer sense of what makes you you, accept everything. the stuff that an insecure person would feel ashamed about, make fun of and embrace. that's true confidence
Your subconscious is always right, because it dictates what you are, and what you are going to do as a result.
If in your subconscious you think you are a loser, then its correct. If your subconscious says you are a winner, then its correct. You will focus on being a winner.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.