Becoming more self aware

[kabatura]

I think it is pretty important to know yourself well, how you act in certain situations, your likes/dislikes, values etc. I am lacking in this area though. How does one come to know himself better?

 

[redspicyflag]

Ah my friend

Let me get you started

http://delicious.com/solracious/bundle:life

This is my personal bevy of bookmarks for my personal growth

It takes time and effort to question yourself and see what you really stand for

it's worth it

trust me

 

[ready123]

all you gotta do is actually take the time to think about it and get introspective

and in the company of others, ask for their opinion. if you're macking, you can do this with girls to pick their brain and it's fun. kill two birds with 1 stone lol

and if you wanna take it a step further, after you get a clearer sense of what makes you you, accept everything. the stuff that an insecure person would feel ashamed about, make fun of and embrace. that's true confidence

 

[Alle_Gory]

Ask yourself questions. Answers will come out of nowhere. This is your subconscious responding.

Your subconscious is always right, because it dictates what you are, and what you are going to do as a result.

If in your subconscious you think you are a loser, then its correct. If your subconscious says you are a winner, then its correct. You will focus on being a winner.

 

[speakeasy]

I think it is pretty important to know yourself well, how you act in certain situations, your likes/dislikes, values etc. I am lacking in this area though. How does one come to know himself better?

You're 22. How many 22 years olds know themselves? It'll come with time.