“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Becoming more self aware

kabatura

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I think it is pretty important to know yourself well, how you act in certain situations, your likes/dislikes, values etc. I am lacking in this area though. How does one come to know himself better?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

ready123

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all you gotta do is actually take the time to think about it and get introspective

and in the company of others, ask for their opinion. if you're macking, you can do this with girls to pick their brain and it's fun. kill two birds with 1 stone lol

and if you wanna take it a step further, after you get a clearer sense of what makes you you, accept everything. the stuff that an insecure person would feel ashamed about, make fun of and embrace. that's true confidence
 

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Ask yourself questions. Answers will come out of nowhere. This is your subconscious responding.

Your subconscious is always right, because it dictates what you are, and what you are going to do as a result.

If in your subconscious you think you are a loser, then its correct. If your subconscious says you are a winner, then its correct. You will focus on being a winner.
 

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kabatura said:
I think it is pretty important to know yourself well, how you act in certain situations, your likes/dislikes, values etc. I am lacking in this area though. How does one come to know himself better?
You're 22. How many 22 years olds know themselves? It'll come with time.
 
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