"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Becoming friends with girls you don't find attractive

Vice

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Should you do it? Even though you don't find them attractive, should you go for the digits if they're receptive? Because they might have hot friends, and your value will go up in the presence of these hot friends simply because she likes you :cool:

Plus I think you'd get invited to more events.

Looks like I answered my own question.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dante420

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Yes, great way to meet her friends. Establish the relationship, keep your boundaries and treat her like any friend.
 

thecurtainfalls

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Yes, pivots are great especially if you've done your homework and you know that they're connected to better looking chicks.

A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
 

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be normal and have female friends..... what a concept!!

most of my female friends are virgins, cos i wont shag them and we stay friends. i dont want the temptation so virgins are probably better cos they can still be hot and good social proof e.t.c.
 

Tyson420

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thecurtainfalls said:
Yes, pivots are great especially if you've done your homework and you know that they're connected to better looking chicks.

A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
:up: Listen to this man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
Lol at warpigs.
I agree though. If your female friend is unattractive, I don't think she adds anything of value to your social proof, might even lower it.
If you have a hot female friend, your social proof goes through the roof. But if she's really hot, chances are you'd be attracted to her.
 
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