"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Becoming friends with girls you don't find attractive

Vice

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Should you do it? Even though you don't find them attractive, should you go for the digits if they're receptive? Because they might have hot friends, and your value will go up in the presence of these hot friends simply because she likes you :cool:

Plus I think you'd get invited to more events.

Looks like I answered my own question.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dante420

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Yes, great way to meet her friends. Establish the relationship, keep your boundaries and treat her like any friend.
 

thecurtainfalls

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Yes, pivots are great especially if you've done your homework and you know that they're connected to better looking chicks.

A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
 

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be normal and have female friends..... what a concept!!

most of my female friends are virgins, cos i wont shag them and we stay friends. i dont want the temptation so virgins are probably better cos they can still be hot and good social proof e.t.c.
 

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thecurtainfalls said:
Yes, pivots are great especially if you've done your homework and you know that they're connected to better looking chicks.

A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
:up: Listen to this man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
Lol at warpigs.
I agree though. If your female friend is unattractive, I don't think she adds anything of value to your social proof, might even lower it.
If you have a hot female friend, your social proof goes through the roof. But if she's really hot, chances are you'd be attracted to her.
 
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