"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Becoming friends with girls you don't find attractive

Vice

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Should you do it? Even though you don't find them attractive, should you go for the digits if they're receptive? Because they might have hot friends, and your value will go up in the presence of these hot friends simply because she likes you :cool:

Plus I think you'd get invited to more events.

Looks like I answered my own question.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dante420

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Yes, great way to meet her friends. Establish the relationship, keep your boundaries and treat her like any friend.
 

thecurtainfalls

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Yes, pivots are great especially if you've done your homework and you know that they're connected to better looking chicks.

A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
 

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be normal and have female friends..... what a concept!!

most of my female friends are virgins, cos i wont shag them and we stay friends. i dont want the temptation so virgins are probably better cos they can still be hot and good social proof e.t.c.
 

Tyson420

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thecurtainfalls said:
Yes, pivots are great especially if you've done your homework and you know that they're connected to better looking chicks.

A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
:up: Listen to this man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A word of warning though - be seen too often with only these warpigs and risk some branding, and ultimately lowering of your social value. In other words, use them quickly!
Lol at warpigs.
I agree though. If your female friend is unattractive, I don't think she adds anything of value to your social proof, might even lower it.
If you have a hot female friend, your social proof goes through the roof. But if she's really hot, chances are you'd be attracted to her.
 
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