"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fellow Don Juans, i have an issue and a question for your to answer (or atleast give it a try)..

I have been flirting with this girl for ½ an year, when we startet, we both were in realationsships.
- MIne worse than hers.. We were both Hot & Cold vs. each other throughout the first 5 months, but lately, we have been totaly hooked at each other ..

The question is how to tell if she wants to get exclusive or not - honestly, i want a break from the 'hunting life', just for a bit (or atleast have a girl that i KNOW want me, when it fails)..


She tells me that she only want to be with me, but at the same time tell me, that she is not ready for a realationsship yet, because of her break-up (1 month ago).
She is all like 'I do not have the feeling that i wanna Hoe down, but i am not ready to settle just yet - you are the only one i wanna see though'.
- And i do believe her a bit at that point, cause she is writing me every day, i have seen her a lot lately ..

- How should i interpretate this scenario?? Does she want me or not? .. and how can i put her thoughts in that direction, without asking her if she want?

EDIT; YEs i have slept with her, yes it was more than once!
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Great! Then focus on enjoying the casual sex while it lasts. Leave it to the woman to think about "the relationship" and "where the two of you are going", etc. If and when she wants to be exclusive, she'll tell you by asking something like "are you seeing anyone else?" The present situation is easy for you and fun at the same time. What could be better?

QUOTE: "She is all like 'I do not have the feeling that i wanna Hoe down, but i am not ready to settle just yet - you are the only one i wanna see though'.
- And i do believe her a bit at that point, cause she is writing me every day, i have seen her a lot lately .."

Remember to judge women by their actions, not their words. If she's writing to you every day, and you've slept with her 3/4 times, she's clearly into you. You may well be her next big thing- that's awesome for you! However, you may also be the rebound guy who she wants to get a fix from after her relationship. This is also great for you- easy sex with a girl you like! Just enjoy the sex for what it is without worrying about the future between the two of you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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