"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Becoming Exclusive ....

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Fellow Don Juans, i have an issue and a question for your to answer (or atleast give it a try)..

I have been flirting with this girl for ½ an year, when we startet, we both were in realationsships.
- MIne worse than hers.. We were both Hot & Cold vs. each other throughout the first 5 months, but lately, we have been totaly hooked at each other ..

The question is how to tell if she wants to get exclusive or not - honestly, i want a break from the 'hunting life', just for a bit (or atleast have a girl that i KNOW want me, when it fails)..


She tells me that she only want to be with me, but at the same time tell me, that she is not ready for a realationsship yet, because of her break-up (1 month ago).
She is all like 'I do not have the feeling that i wanna Hoe down, but i am not ready to settle just yet - you are the only one i wanna see though'.
- And i do believe her a bit at that point, cause she is writing me every day, i have seen her a lot lately ..

- How should i interpretate this scenario?? Does she want me or not? .. and how can i put her thoughts in that direction, without asking her if she want?

EDIT; YEs i have slept with her, yes it was more than once!
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Great! Then focus on enjoying the casual sex while it lasts. Leave it to the woman to think about "the relationship" and "where the two of you are going", etc. If and when she wants to be exclusive, she'll tell you by asking something like "are you seeing anyone else?" The present situation is easy for you and fun at the same time. What could be better?

QUOTE: "She is all like 'I do not have the feeling that i wanna Hoe down, but i am not ready to settle just yet - you are the only one i wanna see though'.
- And i do believe her a bit at that point, cause she is writing me every day, i have seen her a lot lately .."

Remember to judge women by their actions, not their words. If she's writing to you every day, and you've slept with her 3/4 times, she's clearly into you. You may well be her next big thing- that's awesome for you! However, you may also be the rebound guy who she wants to get a fix from after her relationship. This is also great for you- easy sex with a girl you like! Just enjoy the sex for what it is without worrying about the future between the two of you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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