Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Becoming Exclusive ....

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Fellow Don Juans, i have an issue and a question for your to answer (or atleast give it a try)..

I have been flirting with this girl for ½ an year, when we startet, we both were in realationsships.
- MIne worse than hers.. We were both Hot & Cold vs. each other throughout the first 5 months, but lately, we have been totaly hooked at each other ..

The question is how to tell if she wants to get exclusive or not - honestly, i want a break from the 'hunting life', just for a bit (or atleast have a girl that i KNOW want me, when it fails)..


She tells me that she only want to be with me, but at the same time tell me, that she is not ready for a realationsship yet, because of her break-up (1 month ago).
She is all like 'I do not have the feeling that i wanna Hoe down, but i am not ready to settle just yet - you are the only one i wanna see though'.
- And i do believe her a bit at that point, cause she is writing me every day, i have seen her a lot lately ..

- How should i interpretate this scenario?? Does she want me or not? .. and how can i put her thoughts in that direction, without asking her if she want?

EDIT; YEs i have slept with her, yes it was more than once!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Great! Then focus on enjoying the casual sex while it lasts. Leave it to the woman to think about "the relationship" and "where the two of you are going", etc. If and when she wants to be exclusive, she'll tell you by asking something like "are you seeing anyone else?" The present situation is easy for you and fun at the same time. What could be better?

QUOTE: "She is all like 'I do not have the feeling that i wanna Hoe down, but i am not ready to settle just yet - you are the only one i wanna see though'.
- And i do believe her a bit at that point, cause she is writing me every day, i have seen her a lot lately .."

Remember to judge women by their actions, not their words. If she's writing to you every day, and you've slept with her 3/4 times, she's clearly into you. You may well be her next big thing- that's awesome for you! However, you may also be the rebound guy who she wants to get a fix from after her relationship. This is also great for you- easy sex with a girl you like! Just enjoy the sex for what it is without worrying about the future between the two of you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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