CrazyAsianBiker
Don Juan
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How do people become moderators?
The matrix has been here for 6 years.
The matrix has been here for 6 years.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Becoming a moderator?
- Thread starter CrazyAsianBiker
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
First rule of becoming a moderator is not talking about becoming a moderator.
comic_relief
comic_relief
Doggystyle
Senior Don Juan
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- Aug 20, 2005
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Why would you want to be a moderator? looks like hard work to me!
Do you moderators get paid?
Do you moderators get paid?
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Yes they do get paid.
Every forthnight they get Fed-exed a shipment of my manjuice that they can use for their own pleasure.
Every forthnight they get Fed-exed a shipment of my manjuice that they can use for their own pleasure.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Even if they did get paid, it wouldn't be enough. You have to have a passion to sift through all the garbage here and get rid of the garbage that is the most rechid. I mean come on, look at some of the crap that's on this site! Or do what I do look for the meaty stuff that has some potential and ignore the rest of the crap.Doggystyle said:
I'll never be a mod but my hat's off to the ones who are here and willing to put up with what happens in this kindergarden.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
what's qft stand for? "Quite F-in trying?"Vincent said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.