CrazyAsianBiker
Don Juan
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How do people become moderators?
The matrix has been here for 6 years.
The matrix has been here for 6 years.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Becoming a moderator?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
First rule of becoming a moderator is not talking about becoming a moderator.
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Doggystyle
Senior Don Juan
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Why would you want to be a moderator? looks like hard work to me!
Do you moderators get paid?
Do you moderators get paid?
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Yes they do get paid.
Every forthnight they get Fed-exed a shipment of my manjuice that they can use for their own pleasure.
Every forthnight they get Fed-exed a shipment of my manjuice that they can use for their own pleasure.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Even if they did get paid, it wouldn't be enough. You have to have a passion to sift through all the garbage here and get rid of the garbage that is the most rechid. I mean come on, look at some of the crap that's on this site! Or do what I do look for the meaty stuff that has some potential and ignore the rest of the crap.Doggystyle said:
I'll never be a mod but my hat's off to the ones who are here and willing to put up with what happens in this kindergarden.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
what's qft stand for? "Quite F-in trying?"Vincent said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.