Ken785
Master Don Juan
min. 50k year. no degree needed. what do you guys think?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
exactly. it ain't the tv or movies. too many guys have been watching too many reruns of chips. most cops work in quiet little communities where passing out speeding tickets is the sexiest thing they ever get to do. being a cop is super safe. if you want a dangerous american job you should become a truck driver or crab fisherman.DJDamage said:I heard being a cop is actually a boring job. You spend 90% of the time writing reports and driving around, while the other 10% dealing with the lowlifes of society. Before you become one find out if its really a job that you want to do.
I agree with pretty much everything you said except for the hypocritical part. Cops are running stop signs to get to a call quicker. Sure, you get the occasional cop that abuses this, just like any other profession. Its a perk of the job I guess. I mean, you work at blockbuster, you get free rentals. You work at a car dealership, you get discounts on new vehicles. You become a cop, you get out of the occasional speeding ticket. haha!KarmaSutra said:Cons:
Not enough money for the jeopardy of the work involved.
You have to be hypocritical. It's ok if cops run a stop sign but you can't?
You can get killed.
Pschologically you get fvcked in the noggin'.
You're immediately stereotyped as a donut lover.
Pros:
Some women love guys in uniform.
You can legally carry a firearm (that you have to purchase). Wait, so can law abiding citizens . . . scratch that one.
Gee, lemmee guess?
Wrong. You mean they don't have thieves and crackheads in small towns?Deus ex Pianoforte said:VERY poor representation.
Cons?
- It's up to the individual to decide what is enough money to do a job, or not. And if you live in a small town or a city with low crime, then there is little to NO jeopardy in the work involved.
Get your head out of your ass. I expect civil servants to follow the same laws as they push. Namely, don't run a yellow light or roll through a stop sign.There is nothing hypocritical about certain measures that police officers take to defend the public. What do you want cops to do, stop at stop signs in the middle of a high-speed pursuit while the criminal runs them? Please.
Obviously you don't know jacksh!t about the psychological impact of law enforcement and the pressure that comes with it.Who says you get psychologically f'ucked? Maybe if you're already an unstable individual, or have been watching too many movies...sure.
Most card carrying Republicans wouldn't.Personally, I wouldn't want someone walking around with a firearm that would be bothered by a couple of pot-smoking teenagers stereotyping them as a "donut lover." But that's just me.
As for the pros, you can only think of one? That some women love men in uniform? Come on now. How about:
1) One of the highest paid jobs you can get without a college degree, with fantastic benefits.
2) Unique and exciting job environment. (Opportunity to shoot people)
3) Endless advancement opportunities. (Rip off drug dealers and thieves)
4) Retire in 20 years. (or die in the line of duty)
5) Save lives, help people. ( people don't care about you when you're dead)
6) Be your own boss while on patrol. (no eyes watching over your shoulder)
7) Use your own discretion and judgment on the job. (see above)
8) All your coworkers have passed an extensive background investigation.
9) Help your community. ( Ok, this is plausable)
10) Easily move into other fields of law enforcement. (what's the suicide rate among cops?)
Let's be fair, now.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nice to see that you argue all over the website, great use of your time. Good luck becoming a cop, they would never hire a man of such leftist viewpoints as yourself. :kick:Deus ex Pianoforte said:VERY poor representation.
Cons?
- It's up to the individual to decide what is enough money to do a job, or not. And if you live in a small town or a city with low crime, then there is little to NO jeopardy in the work involved.
- There is nothing hypocritical about certain measures that police officers take to defend the public. What do you want cops to do, stop at stop signs in the middle of a high-speed pursuit while the criminal runs them? Please.
- Who says you get psychologically f'ucked? Maybe if you're already an unstable individual, or have been watching too many movies...sure.
- Personally, I wouldn't want someone walking around with a firearm that would be bothered by a couple of pot-smoking teenagers stereotyping them as a "donut lover." But that's just me.
As for the pros, you can only think of one? That some women love men in uniform? Come on now. How about:
1) One of the highest paid jobs you can get without a college degree, with fantastic benefits.
2) Unique and exciting job environment.
3) Endless advancement opportunities.
4) Retire in 20 years.
5) Save lives, help people.
6) Be your own boss while on patrol.
7) Use your own discretion and judgment on the job.
8) All your coworkers have passed an extensive background investigation.
9) Help your community.
10) Easily move into other fields of law enforcement.
Let's be fair, now.
What the fvck? My drug habits? Jackhole, this is your retort? That's the best you got? I accuse you of being a Republican and you accuse me of being a junkie? This proves how embarrassing it truly is to be a right winger. Good thing the Dems have control. 'Pub's on the run.Deus ex Pianoforte said:I That's it. Turn it to politics the minute someone mentions your drug habits on the net.
Your whole attitude reeks of the gangsta-rap culture mantra of "F'uck da police!", which often results in prison, death, or both. I'm sure the OP is looking for clear-thinking individuals to seriously discuss the option of becoming a police officer. Not far-left anti-government propoganda. Your rhetoric falls on a deaf ear.
logicallefty said:I've been a patrol officer for 3 years.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.