"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Beauty and the Geek!

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
I hope you're joking. You have no way of knowing how much is scripted. Don't get tips from TV shows.
Did I sound serious? If so, I appologize :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Study tonight's eposide carefully (Feb 2nd).

In this eposide, just look at Wes. I find that near-incredible how he changed that much. That's what a makeover could do. Even the other guys weren't too bad looking.

Now, what seperated Wes from the others was how he presented himself. It was not entirely in looks, but it's all about how you carry yourself. Even the beauties, commenting on how 'sophisticated and hot' he was, only a small amount of that was the looks, because if he said some of the things the other guys said, he'd be just as chumpish.

Just a point to note, looks mean VERY little in comparison to presentation.
 

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My friend worked for the WB last year. Some of the "geeks" are actors fakin' the funk. He saw them come in to "audition" and even worked on some aspects of the show.

One of the blond girls from that show from season 1 used to work out at my gym.
 

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Originally posted by $BD
Did I sound serious? If so, I appologize :)
Oh I wasn't offended :) I just don't like to see people follow the whole fictional character path.
 

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The über-nerdy "white" erkel is TOTALLY fake.

I can spot the BS from a mile away, you can tell exactly when things are scripted.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow. Watch the museum curator dude to see exactly what kind of body language and mindsets to avoid. I'm watching right now and the guys were tasked with the challenge of getting chicks to come to their party and this guy is BLOWING at it. His body language is sooo bad; he's holding himself like a praying mantis instead of a human being.
 

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Originally posted by Duke
Wow. Watch the museum curator dude to see exactly what kind of body language and mindsets to avoid. I'm watching right now and the guys were tasked with the challenge of getting chicks to come to their party and this guy is BLOWING at it. His body language is sooo bad; he's holding himself like a praying mantis instead of a human being.
Did you know that a praying mantis could kill and eat a living mouse? It's on youtube somewhere....
 
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