"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Beauty and the Geek!
- Thread starter Duke
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Docs
Banned
In this eposide, just look at Wes. I find that near-incredible how he changed that much. That's what a makeover could do. Even the other guys weren't too bad looking.
Now, what seperated Wes from the others was how he presented himself. It was not entirely in looks, but it's all about how you carry yourself. Even the beauties, commenting on how 'sophisticated and hot' he was, only a small amount of that was the looks, because if he said some of the things the other guys said, he'd be just as chumpish.
Just a point to note, looks mean VERY little in comparison to presentation.
One of the blond girls from that show from season 1 used to work out at my gym.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Oh I wasn't offendedOriginally posted by $BD
Did I sound serious? If so, I appologize
I just don't like to see people follow the whole fictional character path."So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.