"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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beautiful girl but i asked her MSN rather than #

Too2shai

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guys i met a mint girl the other day. saw her once outside the buliding we were in. saw her at lunch and started talking to her as she sat at the table across from mine. she spoke to me first actually asking me to watch her stuff. we spoke for 20min or so across tables. mainly regarding school and etc. as she was leaving i mentioned that she was online alot and if she had msn. she said yes and i asked to exchange. she gave me her msn.

she came back 10min later to confirm i'd gotten her msn. i said yes and she said she'd come to say she was leaving for the day.

so i thought GOOD. i'm doing alright.

anyways. i asked for MSN...

we just had a brief msn conversation regarding.. well what she did for a living.. i just asked a bunch of questions regarding that. ugh. anyways i got off quickly and blocked her. cuz i remmeberd the rules about not being too available and not being on msn too much.

basically i'm asking how do i get her number now
I'M SURE i could have gotten it instead of her msn previously. but now that i'm on msn. how do i migrate to phone???

and any pitfalls and advice you guys can give in regards to this situation.?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Come on man...this is a bit ridiculous.

If you have read the Bible, all you have to do is...


Hey...you seem fun, lets hang out sometime. I am going to ( a place), come with me. Let me get your number.

Easy as pie.


Go forth!!
 

Too2shai

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
Come on man...this is a bit ridiculous.

If you have read the Bible, all you have to do is...


Hey...you seem fun, lets hang out sometime. I am going to ( a place), come with me. Let me get your number.

Easy as pie.


Go forth!!
ok fair enough. i'll reread parts of it for a refresher. i really don't wanna screw this one up. this site helped me get my last gf. so i'll invest the time. thanks
 

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Everytime I #-close a girl I also get her MSN. I've gotten a few flakes though, especially if I don't contact them immediatly after adding them.. MSN is a good thing, but you should arrange a meeting pretty soon.. Just get her number over msn. Tell her to write it down and you'll call her to set something up.
 
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