"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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beautiful girl but i asked her MSN rather than #

Too2shai

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guys i met a mint girl the other day. saw her once outside the buliding we were in. saw her at lunch and started talking to her as she sat at the table across from mine. she spoke to me first actually asking me to watch her stuff. we spoke for 20min or so across tables. mainly regarding school and etc. as she was leaving i mentioned that she was online alot and if she had msn. she said yes and i asked to exchange. she gave me her msn.

she came back 10min later to confirm i'd gotten her msn. i said yes and she said she'd come to say she was leaving for the day.

so i thought GOOD. i'm doing alright.

anyways. i asked for MSN...

we just had a brief msn conversation regarding.. well what she did for a living.. i just asked a bunch of questions regarding that. ugh. anyways i got off quickly and blocked her. cuz i remmeberd the rules about not being too available and not being on msn too much.

basically i'm asking how do i get her number now
I'M SURE i could have gotten it instead of her msn previously. but now that i'm on msn. how do i migrate to phone???

and any pitfalls and advice you guys can give in regards to this situation.?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SynTheUnscathed

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Come on man...this is a bit ridiculous.

If you have read the Bible, all you have to do is...


Hey...you seem fun, lets hang out sometime. I am going to ( a place), come with me. Let me get your number.

Easy as pie.


Go forth!!
 

Too2shai

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
Come on man...this is a bit ridiculous.

If you have read the Bible, all you have to do is...


Hey...you seem fun, lets hang out sometime. I am going to ( a place), come with me. Let me get your number.

Easy as pie.


Go forth!!
ok fair enough. i'll reread parts of it for a refresher. i really don't wanna screw this one up. this site helped me get my last gf. so i'll invest the time. thanks
 

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Everytime I #-close a girl I also get her MSN. I've gotten a few flakes though, especially if I don't contact them immediatly after adding them.. MSN is a good thing, but you should arrange a meeting pretty soon.. Just get her number over msn. Tell her to write it down and you'll call her to set something up.
 
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