"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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beautiful girl but i asked her MSN rather than #

Too2shai

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guys i met a mint girl the other day. saw her once outside the buliding we were in. saw her at lunch and started talking to her as she sat at the table across from mine. she spoke to me first actually asking me to watch her stuff. we spoke for 20min or so across tables. mainly regarding school and etc. as she was leaving i mentioned that she was online alot and if she had msn. she said yes and i asked to exchange. she gave me her msn.

she came back 10min later to confirm i'd gotten her msn. i said yes and she said she'd come to say she was leaving for the day.

so i thought GOOD. i'm doing alright.

anyways. i asked for MSN...

we just had a brief msn conversation regarding.. well what she did for a living.. i just asked a bunch of questions regarding that. ugh. anyways i got off quickly and blocked her. cuz i remmeberd the rules about not being too available and not being on msn too much.

basically i'm asking how do i get her number now
I'M SURE i could have gotten it instead of her msn previously. but now that i'm on msn. how do i migrate to phone???

and any pitfalls and advice you guys can give in regards to this situation.?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SynTheUnscathed

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Come on man...this is a bit ridiculous.

If you have read the Bible, all you have to do is...


Hey...you seem fun, lets hang out sometime. I am going to ( a place), come with me. Let me get your number.

Easy as pie.


Go forth!!
 

Too2shai

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
Come on man...this is a bit ridiculous.

If you have read the Bible, all you have to do is...


Hey...you seem fun, lets hang out sometime. I am going to ( a place), come with me. Let me get your number.

Easy as pie.


Go forth!!
ok fair enough. i'll reread parts of it for a refresher. i really don't wanna screw this one up. this site helped me get my last gf. so i'll invest the time. thanks
 

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Everytime I #-close a girl I also get her MSN. I've gotten a few flakes though, especially if I don't contact them immediatly after adding them.. MSN is a good thing, but you should arrange a meeting pretty soon.. Just get her number over msn. Tell her to write it down and you'll call her to set something up.
 
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