Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Beards

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snowdog said:
Oh, and beards don't make you cooler by the way. Fascists and *******s like Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara had them.
Who else had beards?
  • Spartans, including King Leonidas I. Cowards were punished by having their beards sheared off.
  • The most elite of the ancient Egyptians had beards. A metal false beard was even worn by queens.
  • All pre-Alexander Greek men had beards. To be without a beard was to be considered womanly. Alexander began the clean-shaven trend merely to protect his soldiers from giving their enemies something to grab onto in the heat of battle.
  • All pre-Scipio Roman men had beards. Shaving was an unheard-of practice. Scipio began the clean-shaven trend merely to distinguish Romans from the Greeks.
  • Only veterans of Napoleon's Grande Armée were permitted to grow beards.
  • Who else had a beard? Charles Dic kens, Charles Darwin, Karl Marx, Friederich Nietzsche, Sigmund Freud, Albert Einstein, from Abraham Lincoln to William Taft, The Beatles, Zeus, Poseidon, Jesus, Moses, Abraham, St. Peter, Rastafarians, Robert E. Lee, Ulysses S. Grant, William Sherman, Zakk Wylde, Dimebag Darrell, Dave Grohl, Socrates, Aristotle, Plato, Galileo Galilei, Leonardo da Vinci, Archimedes, Michelangelo, Donatello, Johannes Kepler, Saladin, Stonewall Jackson, Dumbledore, Merlin, Santa Claus, Gandalf, and Gimli.
You clearly know nothing.

"There are two kinds of people in this world that go around beardless — boys and women — and I am neither one." - Greek saying
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think it has to be done right though. Obviously, you don't want to look like you just came out of the woods or off a raft after being stranded. Like anything related to grooming, it should be well kept and look like you take care of yourself. Personally, I think you'd have a better chance with a beard then a stache.
 

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Beards in my opinion have to fit your style and personality. Then they work very well. Otherwise i think you are better off clean shaven.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm Charming

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Snowdog clearly knows nothing about fascism either. Castro is communist and fascism is anti-communist, and Che Guevara was a marxist.
 
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