"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Beards

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snowdog said:
Oh, and beards don't make you cooler by the way. Fascists and *******s like Fidel Castro, Osama Bin Laden and Che Guevara had them.
Who else had beards?
  • Spartans, including King Leonidas I. Cowards were punished by having their beards sheared off.
  • The most elite of the ancient Egyptians had beards. A metal false beard was even worn by queens.
  • All pre-Alexander Greek men had beards. To be without a beard was to be considered womanly. Alexander began the clean-shaven trend merely to protect his soldiers from giving their enemies something to grab onto in the heat of battle.
  • All pre-Scipio Roman men had beards. Shaving was an unheard-of practice. Scipio began the clean-shaven trend merely to distinguish Romans from the Greeks.
  • Only veterans of Napoleon's Grande Armée were permitted to grow beards.
  • Who else had a beard? Charles Dic kens, Charles Darwin, Karl Marx, Friederich Nietzsche, Sigmund Freud, Albert Einstein, from Abraham Lincoln to William Taft, The Beatles, Zeus, Poseidon, Jesus, Moses, Abraham, St. Peter, Rastafarians, Robert E. Lee, Ulysses S. Grant, William Sherman, Zakk Wylde, Dimebag Darrell, Dave Grohl, Socrates, Aristotle, Plato, Galileo Galilei, Leonardo da Vinci, Archimedes, Michelangelo, Donatello, Johannes Kepler, Saladin, Stonewall Jackson, Dumbledore, Merlin, Santa Claus, Gandalf, and Gimli.
You clearly know nothing.

"There are two kinds of people in this world that go around beardless — boys and women — and I am neither one." - Greek saying
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think it has to be done right though. Obviously, you don't want to look like you just came out of the woods or off a raft after being stranded. Like anything related to grooming, it should be well kept and look like you take care of yourself. Personally, I think you'd have a better chance with a beard then a stache.
 

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Beards in my opinion have to fit your style and personality. Then they work very well. Otherwise i think you are better off clean shaven.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm Charming

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Snowdog clearly knows nothing about fascism either. Castro is communist and fascism is anti-communist, and Che Guevara was a marxist.
 
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