"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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youngprodigy

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I cannot stress this topic enough. Got bad facial features? Grow a beard. Got good facial features? Grow a well groomed beard.

I'm pretty blessed in the looks category, and my success with women is great although I am of the ethnic minority (indian), the colour of my skin isn't dark as typical indians and it's rather lighter. I have strong facial features such as a sharp jaw line, visible cheek bones, clear skin and cooperative copper brown hair.

Before growing a beard I used to clean shave while keeping a goatte, skinny moustache and some hair on my chin. My success with receiving interest from different women was great.

During the winter after dropping a girl I had oneitis for (still spun other plates), I decided to grow a full beard just to see if I'm genetically capable of doing so.

I let my beard grow for a month straight without trimming, and I didn't like it at first. My barber trimmed it down and lined it up. My success with women changed dramatically.

I started receiving attention from women who were older and more attractive than what I was used to. It made me feel like a man inside and I guess women just picked up on the vibe.

My question is, have any of you received more success, in terms of interacting with businesses, women, and society in general with a beard or no facial hair.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Eh. I'm trying... but mine comes in really spotty (only looks refined/noticable as a goatie...) Plus I don't like seeing the gray/white hairs this early as I'm only in my mid 30s.

This would take me years to grow :rolleyes:

 

old_skoolr

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Eh a beard never suited me.

Also if you have a massive beard, but no chest hair, the beard is pointless.
 

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Ewwwww!!!

No!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AlphaNate

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You want something timeless.

In my experience, girls like facial hair, but it has to be well-groomed, and it has to be something that would have looked good 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 30 years ago, and 500 years ago.
 

wifehunter

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You want something timeless.

In my experience, girls like facial hair, but it has to be well-groomed, and it has to be something that would have looked good 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 30 years ago, and 500 years ago.
Maybe like a couple of days of stubble?:p
 

wifehunter

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If groomed, yes, this is always a good option.

I usually shave it off completely, when it looks ungroomed.:p I'm not into the dirty look.
 

051AV

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No beard for me it grows in spotty, any of my female friends have told me they are not a fan of facial hair, I used to have a cop stache for years shave it off a good 5 years ago.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Building_and_Loan

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If you have a beard, trim and groom that sh1t regularly.

You may think your unkempt beard looks rugged and natural, but it doesn't. You look homeless.
 
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