Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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youngprodigy

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I cannot stress this topic enough. Got bad facial features? Grow a beard. Got good facial features? Grow a well groomed beard.

I'm pretty blessed in the looks category, and my success with women is great although I am of the ethnic minority (indian), the colour of my skin isn't dark as typical indians and it's rather lighter. I have strong facial features such as a sharp jaw line, visible cheek bones, clear skin and cooperative copper brown hair.

Before growing a beard I used to clean shave while keeping a goatte, skinny moustache and some hair on my chin. My success with receiving interest from different women was great.

During the winter after dropping a girl I had oneitis for (still spun other plates), I decided to grow a full beard just to see if I'm genetically capable of doing so.

I let my beard grow for a month straight without trimming, and I didn't like it at first. My barber trimmed it down and lined it up. My success with women changed dramatically.

I started receiving attention from women who were older and more attractive than what I was used to. It made me feel like a man inside and I guess women just picked up on the vibe.

My question is, have any of you received more success, in terms of interacting with businesses, women, and society in general with a beard or no facial hair.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eh. I'm trying... but mine comes in really spotty (only looks refined/noticable as a goatie...) Plus I don't like seeing the gray/white hairs this early as I'm only in my mid 30s.

This would take me years to grow :rolleyes:

 

old_skoolr

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Eh a beard never suited me.

Also if you have a massive beard, but no chest hair, the beard is pointless.
 

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Ewwwww!!!

No!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlphaNate

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You want something timeless.

In my experience, girls like facial hair, but it has to be well-groomed, and it has to be something that would have looked good 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 30 years ago, and 500 years ago.
 

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You want something timeless.

In my experience, girls like facial hair, but it has to be well-groomed, and it has to be something that would have looked good 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 30 years ago, and 500 years ago.
Maybe like a couple of days of stubble?:p
 

wifehunter

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If groomed, yes, this is always a good option.

I usually shave it off completely, when it looks ungroomed.:p I'm not into the dirty look.
 

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No beard for me it grows in spotty, any of my female friends have told me they are not a fan of facial hair, I used to have a cop stache for years shave it off a good 5 years ago.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Building_and_Loan

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If you have a beard, trim and groom that sh1t regularly.

You may think your unkempt beard looks rugged and natural, but it doesn't. You look homeless.
 
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