"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Beard

youngprodigy

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2017
Messages
123
Reaction score
53
Age
28
Location
Toronto
I cannot stress this topic enough. Got bad facial features? Grow a beard. Got good facial features? Grow a well groomed beard.

I'm pretty blessed in the looks category, and my success with women is great although I am of the ethnic minority (indian), the colour of my skin isn't dark as typical indians and it's rather lighter. I have strong facial features such as a sharp jaw line, visible cheek bones, clear skin and cooperative copper brown hair.

Before growing a beard I used to clean shave while keeping a goatte, skinny moustache and some hair on my chin. My success with receiving interest from different women was great.

During the winter after dropping a girl I had oneitis for (still spun other plates), I decided to grow a full beard just to see if I'm genetically capable of doing so.

I let my beard grow for a month straight without trimming, and I didn't like it at first. My barber trimmed it down and lined it up. My success with women changed dramatically.

I started receiving attention from women who were older and more attractive than what I was used to. It made me feel like a man inside and I guess women just picked up on the vibe.

My question is, have any of you received more success, in terms of interacting with businesses, women, and society in general with a beard or no facial hair.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

resilient

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2005
Messages
1,636
Reaction score
1,366
Eh. I'm trying... but mine comes in really spotty (only looks refined/noticable as a goatie...) Plus I don't like seeing the gray/white hairs this early as I'm only in my mid 30s.

This would take me years to grow :rolleyes:

 

old_skoolr

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
637
Reaction score
241
Location
Melbourne
Eh a beard never suited me.

Also if you have a massive beard, but no chest hair, the beard is pointless.
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
Ewwwww!!!

No!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

AlphaNate

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 23, 2012
Messages
756
Reaction score
569
Location
USA
You want something timeless.

In my experience, girls like facial hair, but it has to be well-groomed, and it has to be something that would have looked good 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 30 years ago, and 500 years ago.
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
You want something timeless.

In my experience, girls like facial hair, but it has to be well-groomed, and it has to be something that would have looked good 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 30 years ago, and 500 years ago.
Maybe like a couple of days of stubble?:p
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
If groomed, yes, this is always a good option.

I usually shave it off completely, when it looks ungroomed.:p I'm not into the dirty look.
 

051AV

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2015
Messages
503
Reaction score
312
No beard for me it grows in spotty, any of my female friends have told me they are not a fan of facial hair, I used to have a cop stache for years shave it off a good 5 years ago.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Building_and_Loan

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2014
Messages
413
Reaction score
247
If you have a beard, trim and groom that sh1t regularly.

You may think your unkempt beard looks rugged and natural, but it doesn't. You look homeless.
 
Top