"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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be persistent for a few months?

aschillascanbe

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had a chat with one of my bros yesterday and he gave me this particular advice that confuses me after having browsed this site for a bit..

"Be persistent"

using an example from his UNI class.. below average looking guys hooking up with not bad - above average looking girls after trying for months.. claiming it took one guy 6 months..

i am wondering how do these guys do it.. i am sure the interest level wasn't high to begin with.. am i missing something?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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makdaddy

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It took one guy basically 6 months to get laid.
That's a fail in my book.

In most cases this amount of devotion will come off as creepy.
I would advise against it.


To answer your question...she might of had second thoughts about the guy.
It's obviously not physical attraction. Maybe he was a gentleman to her and she usually gets *******s.
 

AlexLefty

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Go for the kill.

Either she accepts your or she rejects you.

End of story.

If she rejects you don't be her puppy on a leash and chase after her for 6 months. She doesn't like you? She can **** herself.

so basically makdaddy is right on
 

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My friend told me she once "gave in" and had sex with a guy who had wanted her for ages. Literally the entire length of her degree.
During the sex he said something like, "You've wanted this for so long".
At which point she actually stopped having sex with him in order to correct him.
Lol.
 

Greasy Pig

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I've had two girls tell me they slept with a guy who basically begged for it. They couldn't even tell me why but they just "gave in".
I only want to fvck women who would crawl over broken glass for my dyck, not because they feel sorry for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aschillascanbe said:
had a chat with one of my bros yesterday and he gave me this particular advice that confuses me after having browsed this site for a bit..

"Be persistent"

using an example from his UNI class.. below average looking guys hooking up with not bad - above average looking girls after trying for months.. claiming it took one guy 6 months..

i am wondering how do these guys do it.. i am sure the interest level wasn't high to begin with.. am i missing something?
you are missing one thing for sure

your sense of reality

whoever posted this is either bad at judging women or is just a virgin keyboard jockey who made the story up, so others will pat him on the back on a forum
 
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