"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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be persistent for a few months?

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aschillascanbe

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had a chat with one of my bros yesterday and he gave me this particular advice that confuses me after having browsed this site for a bit..

"Be persistent"

using an example from his UNI class.. below average looking guys hooking up with not bad - above average looking girls after trying for months.. claiming it took one guy 6 months..

i am wondering how do these guys do it.. i am sure the interest level wasn't high to begin with.. am i missing something?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It took one guy basically 6 months to get laid.
That's a fail in my book.

In most cases this amount of devotion will come off as creepy.
I would advise against it.


To answer your question...she might of had second thoughts about the guy.
It's obviously not physical attraction. Maybe he was a gentleman to her and she usually gets *******s.
 
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Go for the kill.

Either she accepts your or she rejects you.

End of story.

If she rejects you don't be her puppy on a leash and chase after her for 6 months. She doesn't like you? She can **** herself.

so basically makdaddy is right on
 
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My friend told me she once "gave in" and had sex with a guy who had wanted her for ages. Literally the entire length of her degree.
During the sex he said something like, "You've wanted this for so long".
At which point she actually stopped having sex with him in order to correct him.
Lol.
 
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I've had two girls tell me they slept with a guy who basically begged for it. They couldn't even tell me why but they just "gave in".
I only want to fvck women who would crawl over broken glass for my dyck, not because they feel sorry for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aschillascanbe said:
had a chat with one of my bros yesterday and he gave me this particular advice that confuses me after having browsed this site for a bit..

"Be persistent"

using an example from his UNI class.. below average looking guys hooking up with not bad - above average looking girls after trying for months.. claiming it took one guy 6 months..

i am wondering how do these guys do it.. i am sure the interest level wasn't high to begin with.. am i missing something?
Click to expand...
you are missing one thing for sure

your sense of reality

whoever posted this is either bad at judging women or is just a virgin keyboard jockey who made the story up, so others will pat him on the back on a forum
 
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