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I noticed you started to post.backbreaker said:
Ahh, just keep me in the loop, because I help him administer the forums. At the moment, we need members, and we need content. Badly.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Be on your best behavior.. I'm making a list
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Ahh, just keep me in the loop, because I help him administer the forums. At the moment, we need members, and we need content. Badly.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I swear Backbreaker, if you ever get bored, you should be a carnival worker...
"Step right up! Ladies and Gentlemen, let me show to you the BEST thing you will EVERY lay your eyes on! It's glorified, horrified, and whorified! Ladies, step away right now, Gentlemen, get as close up here as possible! I am about to turn on the light inside your brains, about to pull the wool off your eyes. Behold, the magic of *insert your site name here*"
*Crowd* "OOOOHHHHHHHH!"
I guess once a sales/businessman, always a sales/businessman.
"Step right up! Ladies and Gentlemen, let me show to you the BEST thing you will EVERY lay your eyes on! It's glorified, horrified, and whorified! Ladies, step away right now, Gentlemen, get as close up here as possible! I am about to turn on the light inside your brains, about to pull the wool off your eyes. Behold, the magic of *insert your site name here*"
*Crowd* "OOOOHHHHHHHH!"
I guess once a sales/businessman, always a sales/businessman.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
lol, you should have seen me on the car lot
It's sad when you sale someone who came in looking for an RX-8 a mazda 3 without power windows... and make them LIKE it.. all because the manager needed to get rid of it and was going to pay you 300 extra on the spot
It's sad when you sale someone who came in looking for an RX-8 a mazda 3 without power windows... and make them LIKE it.. all because the manager needed to get rid of it and was going to pay you 300 extra on the spot
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I actually used to do tent sales for a couple of months and I was the guy with the bull horn running up to customers acting a damn fool. it was too fun.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
look at my pic in my previou post.. .and see if you want to call me a geek again
backbreaker said:
That is pretty low, but Mrstabaho is probably lower with 2.4 years registered and .02 posts a day. mine was pretty low before I became a mod now its sky rocketed. All the moving and closing threads. Anyways way off topic...
navyseal2101
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wiener. Can I join the club?