"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Be a Man!

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This is really great!

I wish I could buy you a beer sometime-or whatever you drink - and just hang out with you. this would be truely great.

but I know you are not real - I am not going to explain this further so just figure it out yourself ;) -, therefore in order to honer your essay I will keep my eyes open for someone who is a MAN and by him a beer.

I hope our path will cross in the future.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Great post. Pook, you have a gift of being able to articulate complex motives for why women do what they do. Any time I discover a problem in life, the answer is to look within, and frame the situation differently. As the old saying goes: Attitude determines you altitude. Same goes for women.

However, there is one point that I would disagree with you on... I don't necessarily agree with your point about cooking. I think ( and I'd like to know what ya'll think) that if you're a great cook, and you enjoy cooking for others. Cook for someone and if they hold it against you they can hit the ****ing road. I don't a woman who will disrespect me for doing something for them, as if the mere fact that I know how to prepare a meal like a proper man is somehow an elaborate plan to get in their pants. But that's just me. I'm sure it is all about how you present the idea to them. Either way, the best way to impress a woman is to lead a group, i.e. cook for a mutual group of friends and take charge while she sits and watches you do your thing.
 

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i do everything that pook said, i have better life but i got no girls. i don't know why, i said what i want, do what i want call her dork, touch her, ok.. she flirt with me, but in the end, she don't want to be my girl. i don't know what happen (i have passion after all, my guitar skill is very great! and yes, i do the part time job everyday with no day off. And why i got nothing, some ugly girl like me but no hot girls love me. some one please help
 

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are you fit? get something else going on. Maybe they are just not into your style of music. change your hair style and your mode of dress. got any female friends? hang around with them, so other women know that you're safe to be around women
 

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I have a ton of female friends, I always play guitar for them to sing. They like me and think I am a great person because I can do everything (I'm improving myself every aspects of my life) I'm not blaming pook, i just wonder why i got everything in my life except girls?:( i always flirt with hot girls, they smile to me when we met, sometime want to hug me! But when i asked her out, they often rejected me or act as themselves busy every time.

(P.S. sorry for my pretty bad English.)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have a ton of female friends, I always play guitar for them to sing. They like me and think I am a great person because I can do everything (I'm improving myself every aspects of my life) I'm not blaming pook, i just wonder why i got everything in my life except girls?:( i always flirt with hot girls, they smile to me when we met, sometime want to hug me! But when i asked her out, they often rejected me or act as themselves busy every time.

(P.S. sorry for my pretty bad English.)
Don't reach out to them then, reach out to them. Screw with girls who are currently responsive to you. If you are not having sex, get sex somehow, it's very important.
 

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Don't reach out to them then, reach out to them. Screw with girls who are currently responsive to you. If you are not having sex, get sex somehow, it's very important.
Should read "Don't reach out to them, let them reach out to you"... That's the gyst of it. Once you reach out and thirst after these babes like most guys you are lost. You need them to thirst for you. Build your physique to an uncommonly good one, that shouldn't hurt, and dressing good and smelling good too.
 

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dunno, bro, I have always just "fell into " the women I have scored with. Not that many, 13 in 4 decades. I was (sort of) tied to one for 30 years. :) She was worthless, tho
 

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Should read "Don't reach out to them, let them reach out to you"... That's the gyst of it. Once you reach out and thirst after these babes like most guys you are lost. You need them to thirst for you. Build your physique to an uncommonly good one, that shouldn't hurt, and dressing good and smelling good too.
ok, let do this! Thank for your advice.

dunno, bro, I have always just "fell into " the women I have scored with. Not that many, 13 in 4 decades. I was (sort of) tied to one for 30 years. :) She was worthless, tho
Maybe i'm facing the problem you've said. I just touch, smile, listen to them. no teasing, no screw, no hot&cool. I may have scored them unconsciously.:confused: thank you! I love you guys!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reading the DJB in new year of 2022. I personally want to thank everyone who's contributed. Reading these threads and field reports are like traveling back in time. Especially day gaming where cellphones didnt exist. im blown away. Goes to show how much of an advantage we men have now adays if we work on ourselves because 90% of men today are beta simps, it has never been easier to be a MAN. Thank you and godspeed!
 
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