"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Be a Man! (Redux)

Black Casanova

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I've been gone for a while, and I've just logged in. Everywhere I look I see posts asking for advice. Nothing wrong with that, but it's the kind of advice they're asking for.
"what should I say"
"what should I do"
Listen, we don't come to this site for scripts to rattle off whenever we see a girl.
Scripts for how when and where to use kino.
Scripts for C & F for God's sake.
Have we forgotten that we acme here to become MEN?
Also, whatever you read in the Bible isnt necceasrily true? *gasp* Like that other bible, it's NOT infallible. Girls are generally the same throughout all cultures, but there will be cultural differences. And you can't expect to take a black guys experience with women of his own culture and copy/paste it to your culture and expect sucess.
Use the Bible as a GUIDE, not a WALKTHROUGH.
It can't be a walkthrough. The Bible is there to open your eyes, to show you the door.
But you are the one who has to walk through it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ohiofutballa

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yes indeed all very true, kinda hit on what wescot posted a week or two ago, but still its the truth none the less
 

WesCottII

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Hey!, looks like there's at least three of us who believe in this theory then. :) Good work man. i'll say it again people

THERE IS NO MAGIC SCRIPT. S'ALL EXPERIENCE.
 
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