"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Be a Man! (Redux)

Black Casanova

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I've been gone for a while, and I've just logged in. Everywhere I look I see posts asking for advice. Nothing wrong with that, but it's the kind of advice they're asking for.
"what should I say"
"what should I do"
Listen, we don't come to this site for scripts to rattle off whenever we see a girl.
Scripts for how when and where to use kino.
Scripts for C & F for God's sake.
Have we forgotten that we acme here to become MEN?
Also, whatever you read in the Bible isnt necceasrily true? *gasp* Like that other bible, it's NOT infallible. Girls are generally the same throughout all cultures, but there will be cultural differences. And you can't expect to take a black guys experience with women of his own culture and copy/paste it to your culture and expect sucess.
Use the Bible as a GUIDE, not a WALKTHROUGH.
It can't be a walkthrough. The Bible is there to open your eyes, to show you the door.
But you are the one who has to walk through it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ohiofutballa

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yes indeed all very true, kinda hit on what wescot posted a week or two ago, but still its the truth none the less
 

WesCottII

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Hey!, looks like there's at least three of us who believe in this theory then. :) Good work man. i'll say it again people

THERE IS NO MAGIC SCRIPT. S'ALL EXPERIENCE.
 
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