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BDP - scenario coming up need VETERANS INPUT ASAP

georgie24

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I have a serious question reguarding a scenario and the BDP ex that just left, this question i have is for the VERY mature and or experienced and will be sent via PM only, its about contact and i need a crisp point of view.

can i pm you ? if yes post here or pm me asap please



thank you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

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Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible_Belt said:
its about contact

don't

bingo

it has to do with the children we lost due to complications, the anniversary date of thier passing is comming up soon and im organizing a gett togther, unmungst everthing going on im torn as it is i dont have a solid answer to invite her or not.

do , dont? ect..

my family doesnt know about the BPD, she swept them off thier feet with her candy act

the day is about the kids and i dont wsnt to walk around sour because shes there, at the time its about the kids so it shouldnt matter, like i said her presance greattly affects me negatively
 

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Would you invite a card cheat to your card game?

Just stay away for your own sanity.

If you don't you might as well start mainlining heroin becuase that's what BPD's are ... an addiciton
 

georgie24

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The_411 said:
Would you invite a card cheat to your card game?

Just stay away for your own sanity.

If you don't you might as well start mainlining heroin becuase that's what BPD's are ... an addiciton
the games, tricks, stunts, vanishing acts..im over that, since we broke it off a few weeks ago im still healing so inviting her isnt what i want to do.

again ill look like bad guy when they start asking me were she is, note we are all around same age and used to hang out 2gether

i need a rational explination to my family why she isnt there
 

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georgie

You can pm me if you wish.

How bout telling your family she is ill and you two have ended it. That would be the truth, would it not?
 

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5string said:
georgie

You can pm me if you wish.

How bout telling your family she is ill and you two have ended it. That would be the truth, would it not?
that would be to logical and waste of energy as they have bought her side of the story of why it ended

its such a deep issue due to the kids

i also have to do whats best for me
 
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