"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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April_Infinite

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I'm calling this topic the Big Brother Social Experiment. It's an idea I came up with knowing that school is starting up. I'm shy and would like to reverse this by the end of the year so I won't regret my childhood for the rest of my life.

To keep this short, this is simply a fun way to see if I can go from shy and unknown in my school to outgoing and well respected and liked with your help.

I will keep a journal of my significant social experiences on a consistent basis, much like an approach journal. You get to tell me what to do to help me build up confidence, charm people I interact with, and meet my goal. You tell me exactly what do do, and I'll follow your exact instructions. For example, I'll write that I saw a pretty lady at school one day. If you tell me to introduce myself to her, and ask her to hang out, I will try my best to do so.

Of course, I can't do this without your support. So I'm going to ask right now if you'd like to help me, in my senior year, overcome the odds of my life. If not, you can say so, and I'll just try to do this on my own. What do you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey, good job by taking the initiative. I wrote a wrote on my blog about this a while back

http://beawomanizer.com/college-freshmen-meet-as-many-people-as-possible/

My best advice is to meet EVERYONE, not just focus on hot women. I'm friendly to everyone and made an effort to have a large social circle. You'd be surprised how many hot friends the fat chicks have hehe.
 

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Oh yeah, I forgot to mention to not move this to the High School Forum. Yes, this should be there, but this forum gets more traffic, and I'd like as many people as possible to get to participate.


I need more of a general opinion. Any more people want this to happen or not?
 

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It looks like I'm not getting an interest, so never mind. I'll tough it out on my own. Thank you anyways.
 
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Doesn't have to be on a weekly basis -- a report every few months on your progression/transformation will suffice!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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