"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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April_Infinite

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I'm calling this topic the Big Brother Social Experiment. It's an idea I came up with knowing that school is starting up. I'm shy and would like to reverse this by the end of the year so I won't regret my childhood for the rest of my life.

To keep this short, this is simply a fun way to see if I can go from shy and unknown in my school to outgoing and well respected and liked with your help.

I will keep a journal of my significant social experiences on a consistent basis, much like an approach journal. You get to tell me what to do to help me build up confidence, charm people I interact with, and meet my goal. You tell me exactly what do do, and I'll follow your exact instructions. For example, I'll write that I saw a pretty lady at school one day. If you tell me to introduce myself to her, and ask her to hang out, I will try my best to do so.

Of course, I can't do this without your support. So I'm going to ask right now if you'd like to help me, in my senior year, overcome the odds of my life. If not, you can say so, and I'll just try to do this on my own. What do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey, good job by taking the initiative. I wrote a wrote on my blog about this a while back

http://beawomanizer.com/college-freshmen-meet-as-many-people-as-possible/

My best advice is to meet EVERYONE, not just focus on hot women. I'm friendly to everyone and made an effort to have a large social circle. You'd be surprised how many hot friends the fat chicks have hehe.
 

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Oh yeah, I forgot to mention to not move this to the High School Forum. Yes, this should be there, but this forum gets more traffic, and I'd like as many people as possible to get to participate.


I need more of a general opinion. Any more people want this to happen or not?
 

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It looks like I'm not getting an interest, so never mind. I'll tough it out on my own. Thank you anyways.
 
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Doesn't have to be on a weekly basis -- a report every few months on your progression/transformation will suffice!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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