"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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April_Infinite

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I'm calling this topic the Big Brother Social Experiment. It's an idea I came up with knowing that school is starting up. I'm shy and would like to reverse this by the end of the year so I won't regret my childhood for the rest of my life.

To keep this short, this is simply a fun way to see if I can go from shy and unknown in my school to outgoing and well respected and liked with your help.

I will keep a journal of my significant social experiences on a consistent basis, much like an approach journal. You get to tell me what to do to help me build up confidence, charm people I interact with, and meet my goal. You tell me exactly what do do, and I'll follow your exact instructions. For example, I'll write that I saw a pretty lady at school one day. If you tell me to introduce myself to her, and ask her to hang out, I will try my best to do so.

Of course, I can't do this without your support. So I'm going to ask right now if you'd like to help me, in my senior year, overcome the odds of my life. If not, you can say so, and I'll just try to do this on my own. What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey, good job by taking the initiative. I wrote a wrote on my blog about this a while back

http://beawomanizer.com/college-freshmen-meet-as-many-people-as-possible/

My best advice is to meet EVERYONE, not just focus on hot women. I'm friendly to everyone and made an effort to have a large social circle. You'd be surprised how many hot friends the fat chicks have hehe.
 

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Oh yeah, I forgot to mention to not move this to the High School Forum. Yes, this should be there, but this forum gets more traffic, and I'd like as many people as possible to get to participate.


I need more of a general opinion. Any more people want this to happen or not?
 

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It looks like I'm not getting an interest, so never mind. I'll tough it out on my own. Thank you anyways.
 
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Doesn't have to be on a weekly basis -- a report every few months on your progression/transformation will suffice!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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