"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
bashful suitor
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Why bear around the bush?
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
to be honest, you should never ask just cause it telegraphs too much interest. and trust me if she has a boyfriend that she truly loves she'll tell you.....unless she's interested she might not mention it at all. also keep in mind this is one of the things a woman will tell you to s.hit test you. i gamed girls that have told me this but then later found out they were lying. i've also gamed girls knowing they had boyfriends just to see if they'd tell me, if your game is tight more times then not, they wont mention him at all. if your game is not so good, trust me they tell you right away. in other words use it as a gauge to see were your game is at. if they dont say anything, proceed. if they tell you they do, proceed until they mention the boyfirend again, thats when you stop.messier6 said:
Unfortunately there aer also women who tell you about their boyfriend immediately and often to the popint of being obnoxious which usually means that have a boyfriend or it's massive s-test.
SharinganUser
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If a woman is attracted to you, she won't have a boyfriend. If she is not attracted to you, she'll have a boyfriend. This is regardless of her actual status.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.