"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
bashful suitor
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Why bear around the bush?
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
to be honest, you should never ask just cause it telegraphs too much interest. and trust me if she has a boyfriend that she truly loves she'll tell you.....unless she's interested she might not mention it at all. also keep in mind this is one of the things a woman will tell you to s.hit test you. i gamed girls that have told me this but then later found out they were lying. i've also gamed girls knowing they had boyfriends just to see if they'd tell me, if your game is tight more times then not, they wont mention him at all. if your game is not so good, trust me they tell you right away. in other words use it as a gauge to see were your game is at. if they dont say anything, proceed. if they tell you they do, proceed until they mention the boyfirend again, thats when you stop.messier6 said:
Unfortunately there aer also women who tell you about their boyfriend immediately and often to the popint of being obnoxious which usually means that have a boyfriend or it's massive s-test.
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If a woman is attracted to you, she won't have a boyfriend. If she is not attracted to you, she'll have a boyfriend. This is regardless of her actual status.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.