"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Why bear around the bush?
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
to be honest, you should never ask just cause it telegraphs too much interest. and trust me if she has a boyfriend that she truly loves she'll tell you.....unless she's interested she might not mention it at all. also keep in mind this is one of the things a woman will tell you to s.hit test you. i gamed girls that have told me this but then later found out they were lying. i've also gamed girls knowing they had boyfriends just to see if they'd tell me, if your game is tight more times then not, they wont mention him at all. if your game is not so good, trust me they tell you right away. in other words use it as a gauge to see were your game is at. if they dont say anything, proceed. if they tell you they do, proceed until they mention the boyfirend again, thats when you stop.messier6 said:
Unfortunately there aer also women who tell you about their boyfriend immediately and often to the popint of being obnoxious which usually means that have a boyfriend or it's massive s-test.
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If a woman is attracted to you, she won't have a boyfriend. If she is not attracted to you, she'll have a boyfriend. This is regardless of her actual status.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.