"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Basement apartment.. in the middle of party district.. would you live there?
- Thread starter happyguy
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Pros:
- Walking distance to clubs
- Can get ****faced drunk and able to get home ok
- Can party everyday
- Can bring girls home, bang em then go back to the club
- Get drunk, get high before going to club saving you money if you're into that sort of thing
- Lots of things to do
Cons:
- Waste a lot of money
- Renting is a waste of money, better to just buy a place
- You won't look too slick bring girls home in a basement apt, especially if you share it with other house mates
- Expensive to live
All in all Id say its the best place to live in for a young guy who wants to party, I personally wouldn live anywhere eles after living here. I feeling of just walking out of the house and into a club is nice, you dont have that feeling of "going out" so you are much more relaxed in the club.