Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Basement apartment.. in the middle of party district.. would you live there?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Which city, if you feel comfortable divulging this?
 

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I don't live in a basement but I do live in the party district. Lets just say it has its advantages :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, I know dunno JACK about Philly. I can't help. Sorry. Good luck.

What you described sounded ok, though. Listen to others.
 

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Interesting thread, I just happened to move into a Basement apt last month in the middle of the clubbing district. I think am qualify to answer this question :D

Pros:

- Walking distance to clubs
- Can get ****faced drunk and able to get home ok
- Can party everyday
- Can bring girls home, bang em then go back to the club
- Get drunk, get high before going to club saving you money if you're into that sort of thing
- Lots of things to do

Cons:

- Waste a lot of money
- Renting is a waste of money, better to just buy a place
- You won't look too slick bring girls home in a basement apt, especially if you share it with other house mates
- Expensive to live

All in all Id say its the best place to live in for a young guy who wants to party, I personally wouldn live anywhere eles after living here. I feeling of just walking out of the house and into a club is nice, you dont have that feeling of "going out" so you are much more relaxed in the club.
 
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