"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Basement apartment.. in the middle of party district.. would you live there?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cesare Cardinali
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2002
- Messages
- 911
- Reaction score
- 9
Pros:
- Walking distance to clubs
- Can get ****faced drunk and able to get home ok
- Can party everyday
- Can bring girls home, bang em then go back to the club
- Get drunk, get high before going to club saving you money if you're into that sort of thing
- Lots of things to do
Cons:
- Waste a lot of money
- Renting is a waste of money, better to just buy a place
- You won't look too slick bring girls home in a basement apt, especially if you share it with other house mates
- Expensive to live
All in all Id say its the best place to live in for a young guy who wants to party, I personally wouldn live anywhere eles after living here. I feeling of just walking out of the house and into a club is nice, you dont have that feeling of "going out" so you are much more relaxed in the club.