"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bartending School, weekend warrior gig??

The_flying_dutchman

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Call me silly, but while I'm still young (sorta) I'd like to pursue a side gig as a bartender.

don't get me wrong, I make 90K a year at my job as a corporate accountant.

But I've always had this childhood fantasy of working a bar and meeting trashy women, biker gangs, thugs, low lives, prostitutes, etc...


Do you guys have any recommendations on which school to attend?

Also, I should probably say that I know nothing about alcohol since I don't even drink.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The_flying_dutchman

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90K in CA, after taxes really aint much. Its not about money, its about a childhood fantasy if working in a seedy bar and meeting shady people.
 

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Bartending is a great job. But watch working dive joints if you're lucky enough to make the jump from b'tending school to working.

It's one of the most dangerous jobs there is because in a lot of places you are a de facto bouncer and are often the person in charge of a lot of cash.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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