"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bartending School, weekend warrior gig??

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Call me silly, but while I'm still young (sorta) I'd like to pursue a side gig as a bartender.

don't get me wrong, I make 90K a year at my job as a corporate accountant.

But I've always had this childhood fantasy of working a bar and meeting trashy women, biker gangs, thugs, low lives, prostitutes, etc...


Do you guys have any recommendations on which school to attend?

Also, I should probably say that I know nothing about alcohol since I don't even drink.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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90K in CA, after taxes really aint much. Its not about money, its about a childhood fantasy if working in a seedy bar and meeting shady people.
 
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Bartending is a great job. But watch working dive joints if you're lucky enough to make the jump from b'tending school to working.

It's one of the most dangerous jobs there is because in a lot of places you are a de facto bouncer and are often the person in charge of a lot of cash.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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