"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bang your best friend's ex girlfriend

baws

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Im 15, Right now I am in a position where I can bang the ex of my best friend..

She wants to bang , she is very attracted to me .

She told me wants a bf/gf relationship with me but I told her I just want to bang her .. she was pissed a little bit but she still wants to bang.. She's a 8.5/10. She is very attractive and I want to bang her but the problem is that she went out with my best friend for a long time ( 1 year ) and they fvcked a lot of times.. If I bang her it would be my first time.. and also if my friend knows about it he will get fvcking pissed.

Should I go for it ? What do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sageproduct

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All I can say is I'm VERY glad I don't have you as a sh1tty excuse for a friend in my life
 

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My situation is reverse to yours lol. I am the best friend.
And yesterday I punched him in the face and he had to go to hospital to get stiches =/ wrong move? he said he still want be friends with me but he lied to me so many times i dunno if i can trust him anymore
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Julius_Seizeher

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I lost my best friend from school after screwing his ex, not worth it AT ALL.

Don't do it.
 

Black suit

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I feel betrayed that a few of my 'best friends' keep in touch with an ex I suffered onitis with. I don't consider them true best friends anymore.

Some things are just a NO. Nothing personal, but it's a very one sided relationship between you and your friend, isn't it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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baws

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I did not do it finally.I did not want to do it in the first place so I told my friend and he sayed he would be ****ing pissed. The bang was not worth breaking our friendship.
 

Vitanoid

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I don't get it...what's wrong with banging your best friend's ex girlfriend?
 

mareth22

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I just went through the exact same situation and it ended terribly. My friend ended up hating me and the girl ended it for him. It isn't worth it at all..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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