"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bang your best friend's ex girlfriend

baws

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Im 15, Right now I am in a position where I can bang the ex of my best friend..

She wants to bang , she is very attracted to me .

She told me wants a bf/gf relationship with me but I told her I just want to bang her .. she was pissed a little bit but she still wants to bang.. She's a 8.5/10. She is very attractive and I want to bang her but the problem is that she went out with my best friend for a long time ( 1 year ) and they fvcked a lot of times.. If I bang her it would be my first time.. and also if my friend knows about it he will get fvcking pissed.

Should I go for it ? What do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sageproduct

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All I can say is I'm VERY glad I don't have you as a sh1tty excuse for a friend in my life
 

IHBWAP

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My situation is reverse to yours lol. I am the best friend.
And yesterday I punched him in the face and he had to go to hospital to get stiches =/ wrong move? he said he still want be friends with me but he lied to me so many times i dunno if i can trust him anymore
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Julius_Seizeher

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I lost my best friend from school after screwing his ex, not worth it AT ALL.

Don't do it.
 

Black suit

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I feel betrayed that a few of my 'best friends' keep in touch with an ex I suffered onitis with. I don't consider them true best friends anymore.

Some things are just a NO. Nothing personal, but it's a very one sided relationship between you and your friend, isn't it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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baws

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I did not do it finally.I did not want to do it in the first place so I told my friend and he sayed he would be ****ing pissed. The bang was not worth breaking our friendship.
 

Vitanoid

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I don't get it...what's wrong with banging your best friend's ex girlfriend?
 

mareth22

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I just went through the exact same situation and it ended terribly. My friend ended up hating me and the girl ended it for him. It isn't worth it at all..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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