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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bandmembers

which of these positions in a band is most appealing to women?

  • singer

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • guitarist

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • bassist

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • drummer

    Votes: 5 33.3%

  • Total voters
    15

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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You know, this is the perfect poll, i mean obviously, you are asking a question about what women think, and seeing that this forum is dominated by women, im sure you will get many results. Good luck. But all in all, The Bassist is best position in band hands down - in any aspect of any question. Yeah, thats right.
 

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omg, whoever voted drummer is retarded (or obviously a drummer) , the singer is obviously the one that stands out most
 
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(this taken from my own personal experience in being in bands)

Well, it really depends on the personality and stage presence of that band member. If the guitarist is the Goofy, run around and be unique on stage type, he could definitely gain some attention. This pretty much goes for every member. Uniqueness will set you apart.
 

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this is kinda stupid.

Every chick has a different like/dislike in the band. Most say drummers cause they're stong and have good rhythm (;) like in the bed)

But i've heard chicks say bassists, guitarists, singers.

Sorry keytarists no votes for you!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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