"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bandmembers

which of these positions in a band is most appealing to women?

  • singer

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • guitarist

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • bassist

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • drummer

    Votes: 5 33.3%

  • Total voters
    15

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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runner10_13

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You know, this is the perfect poll, i mean obviously, you are asking a question about what women think, and seeing that this forum is dominated by women, im sure you will get many results. Good luck. But all in all, The Bassist is best position in band hands down - in any aspect of any question. Yeah, thats right.
 

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omg, whoever voted drummer is retarded (or obviously a drummer) , the singer is obviously the one that stands out most
 
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(this taken from my own personal experience in being in bands)

Well, it really depends on the personality and stage presence of that band member. If the guitarist is the Goofy, run around and be unique on stage type, he could definitely gain some attention. This pretty much goes for every member. Uniqueness will set you apart.
 

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this is kinda stupid.

Every chick has a different like/dislike in the band. Most say drummers cause they're stong and have good rhythm (;) like in the bed)

But i've heard chicks say bassists, guitarists, singers.

Sorry keytarists no votes for you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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