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bandmembers

which of these positions in a band is most appealing to women?

  • singer

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • guitarist

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • bassist

    Votes: 2 13.3%
  • drummer

    Votes: 5 33.3%

  • Total voters
    15

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You know, this is the perfect poll, i mean obviously, you are asking a question about what women think, and seeing that this forum is dominated by women, im sure you will get many results. Good luck. But all in all, The Bassist is best position in band hands down - in any aspect of any question. Yeah, thats right.
 

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omg, whoever voted drummer is retarded (or obviously a drummer) , the singer is obviously the one that stands out most
 
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(this taken from my own personal experience in being in bands)

Well, it really depends on the personality and stage presence of that band member. If the guitarist is the Goofy, run around and be unique on stage type, he could definitely gain some attention. This pretty much goes for every member. Uniqueness will set you apart.
 

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this is kinda stupid.

Every chick has a different like/dislike in the band. Most say drummers cause they're stong and have good rhythm (;) like in the bed)

But i've heard chicks say bassists, guitarists, singers.

Sorry keytarists no votes for you!
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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