"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kerensky

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This guy is a troll. Every single one of his posts are stupid and advocate racist lynching, rape, or incestual anal sex. Just ban him now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What a friggen reject to society considering he is using the same name as the kid who shot up his high school from nazi.org or whatever neo-nazi site it is.

Allen ban him and mods please delete his posts because they are retarded and serve no useful purpose.
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
This guy is a troll. Every single one of his posts are stupid and advocate racist lynching, rape, or incestual anal sex. Just ban him now.
Please use PM to mods.
 

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Yeah, I was wondering about that. I clicked the "Report this post to a moderator" a few times and sent that. Is that the same thing as PMing you guys? Just wondering if I should do both or jsut one.
 

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I believe those messages are sent to all moderators and admins as an email.
Abusing it will inevitably lead to a ban ofcourse :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes, clicking on "Report this post to a moderator" sends an email to the moderators of that section and Allen. All we (moderators) can do is delete the post, close it, move it, ect. Only Allen can ban, which explains why sometimes trolls go on longer than expected.
 

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huh? I left for a week and we have a new mod? TheVirtualMind have you been on sosuave before?
 

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Originally posted by Void
huh? I left for a week and we have a new mod? TheVirtualMind have you been on sosuave before?
The mod's vote yes, but as to who, we don't have a clue and no one is telling us anything. Isn't life great?
 

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Originally posted by Void
huh? I left for a week and we have a new mod? TheVirtualMind have you been on sosuave before?
:D

Originally posted by Vincent
The mod's vote yes, but as to who, we don't have a clue and no one is telling us anything. Isn't life great?
;) :cool:
 

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Life is great actually, thank you for asking. :)

And well, welcome virtualmind!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by todesangel2
NIGER BUTTFCK SLUTS GO NUTS
You see this is why people banned you to start with.

Honestly, learn to use grammatically correct sentences at the very least. And spell properly.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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see?

its magic.

I found out when I posted something with that username.

No. I dont know WHO the heck got on my computer and did all this **** but im going to find out. Most likely one of my brothers idiot friends. a few have been over the two days he posted. My brother has no idea, and Im sure hes telling the truth.Anyway, Im putting up the password lock thingy on the computer.

todesengel was the shooter at that school. Thats where the name comes from.

i looked in the history and found a bunch of porn.

I found a butt**** sluts and a sluts go nuts among them.Some repulsive pictures in there.
 
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