"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ban GigalöDJ
- Thread starter Saine
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Geographic ban is more effective than anything else.
IP ban, he could refresh his ipconf. and he has a new IP.
Email ban doesn't work be cause I could sign up for hotmail.
The only way to escape geographic ban is to move to another location which is harder. The same line is the same line.
What is a geographic ban? Does that mean no one from his area can log on to SoSuave? What if he lives in New York? Does that mean all of Manhattan is banned? Unless the guy lives in Ohio I don't think a Geographic ban is the brightest thing you can do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Spiffy like Spizzay like yizzay? Is that SnoopDogg+Jay-Z talk. NEway, thx for xplaining, now I know. However, I don't see the good of banning a public library from access to SS.Originally posted by Saine
Geographic ban mean from telephone number ban to address ban.
What you said is more of like area ban, never happened and not developed.It would be spiffy if made.
I mean, clearly, losers like that just want attention. Metavirus/Rocket_Ship/Random_Loser/Random_Ship/14yearoldmonster/Poök/GigalöDJ/Elite_Womanizer/etc/etc/etc. Instead of replying to their stupid posts, just ignore them, let their stupidity fall on deaf ears. Instead, two stupid posts by some dome idiot turn into an all-star publicity stunt with half the SOSuave community taking notice. Just erase their posts and ban their acocunts... I mean... how many e-mail accounts can he keep making until he figures out taht no one will remember his stupid sh!t?
Spiffy. Lol it's a word dude. http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=spiffy&r=67
It's in the dictionary. I don't speak "ebonic". Sorry.
About the "losers". They can make as many email as needed.
It's good to ban the public library, I personally think only certain people should be able to use this website. Apparently someone leaked out too much.