I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm @ a library, not much good there... my god, InSaine, you get irked so easily... I never even crossed you... oh well, just wait!Originally posted by Saine
Not GigaloDJ but GigalöDJ. Allen, he's making our lives on the forum worse!
Do a geographic ban, I used to have a forum so I know.
I hope Allen is a smart tech on PHP otherwise..
Geographic ban is more effective than anything else.Originally posted by Nocturnal
The guy imitating people's names (GigalöDJ, Poök etc) is causing a lot of disruption. Allen you can do an IP ban right? This is getting a little bit out of hand and there are just as many complaints about it as there are posts by him.
What is a geographic ban? Does that mean no one from his area can log on to SoSuave? What if he lives in New York? Does that mean all of Manhattan is banned? Unless the guy lives in Ohio I don't think a Geographic ban is the brightest thing you can do.Originally posted by Saine
Geographic ban is more effective than anything else.
IP ban, he could refresh his ipconf. and he has a new IP.
Email ban doesn't work be cause I could sign up for hotmail.
The only way to escape geographic ban is to move to another location which is harder. The same line is the same line.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Geographic ban mean from telephone number ban to address ban.Originally posted by MVPlaya
What is a geographic ban? Does that mean no one from his area can log on to SoSuave? What if he lives in New York? Does that mean all of Manhattan is banned? Unless the guy lives in Ohio I don't think a Geographic ban is the brightest thing you can do.
Spiffy like Spizzay like yizzay? Is that SnoopDogg+Jay-Z talk. NEway, thx for xplaining, now I know. However, I don't see the good of banning a public library from access to SS.Originally posted by Saine
Geographic ban mean from telephone number ban to address ban.
What you said is more of like area ban, never happened and not developed.It would be spiffy if made.
Spiffy. Lol it's a word dude. http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=spiffy&r=67Originally posted by MVPlaya
Spiffy like Spizzay like yizzay? Is that SnoopDogg+Jay-Z talk. NEway, thx for xplaining, now I know. However, I don't see the good of banning a public library from access to SS.
I mean, clearly, losers like that just want attention. Metavirus/Rocket_Ship/Random_Loser/Random_Ship/14yearoldmonster/Poök/GigalöDJ/Elite_Womanizer/etc/etc/etc. Instead of replying to their stupid posts, just ignore them, let their stupidity fall on deaf ears. Instead, two stupid posts by some dome idiot turn into an all-star publicity stunt with half the SOSuave community taking notice. Just erase their posts and ban their acocunts... I mean... how many e-mail accounts can he keep making until he figures out taht no one will remember his stupid sh!t?